Howard and I dated for 2 years and were married for three. He started hinting that I should go out and meet other people. At first I thought he just meant friends. It wasn’t until some time later that I understood he wanted me to date. I was shocked and it turned me off for a month. When I calmed down he gave me some material to read about women who were in relationships and dated occasionally. And all of them were dating and engaging in sexual activity. Yet they remained in their relationship.

I ended up talking to one of these women. Her name was Adelia. She told me about how she never intended to be sexually faithful to her husband even before they were married. She told him point blank that she loved him and wanted a long relationship with him but she fully intended to date and have sex with other men whenever she wanted. It was non-negotiable. He agreed. At first she did have the occasional fling. It wasn’t until she learned the one main rule. The outside lover should have a bigger cock than the husband. In her case that was not difficult. In her case she also insisted that her sex partners be circumcised. I’m not sure why. But that was what she wanted. She met someone who was a sexual dynamo. He was not a fun guy and treated her like a complete whore. But she had massive orgasms. It wasn’t long after that she was unable to orgasm when having ex with her husband. She would let him do it once in awhile but only after he used his tongue on her and made her cum several times.

Find someone who can really fuck she said. Try out different guys until the right one came along. It does not matter if they are totally ridiculous, so long as they can fuck.

After that, I started insisting that Howard eat my pussy more. I would sometimes text him on my way home from work to tell him to be ready to eat my pussy as soon as I got there. He would be so eager to fuck that it would last only minutes. I soon stopped letting him fuck me right away. I made him cool down for at least two hours then after another round of pussy licking then he got to put his dick in me.  It helped a bit and our sex life began to became interesting. 

I wasn’t dating anyone else yet. I got a message from Adelia. She and I had become better friends. A friend of hers was in my area and she wanted me to meet him. She advised me to have Howard make me cum with his tongue before I went to meet her friend.

Her friend’s name was Conrad. He was around 40, pretty muscular and average looks.